Dissociative Identity Disorder
Extra anxious tonight. And feeling particularly vulnerable for an unknown reason since nothing vulnerable has been done. But it feels like tears are close and want to fall. The need to hide ourselves is huge. And, too, is the need to be more real than ever before.
I can feel that inside there are a lot of thoughts happening I am not consciously privy to… and maybe that’s a good thing. As they run past and gain brief awareness they seem bigger and more pressing than I can really tolerate being in my awareness.
I’m feeling more and more like the body is a switchboard of emotions and others all being plugged in and connected briefly before being unplugged and plugged in somewhere else. I don’t feel solid in the body one bit.
How low can you go
There is a serious need for extra sleep all of the sudden. Like the body hit a brick wall and wants to sleep it off or something. Maybe all the body jumping and shaking has taken more energy than I realized. Whatever the cause it’s intense and I stopped and got coffee on the way home from EMDR in hopes of artificially jumpstarting the body.
The intense need to cry and grieve, and the inability to do so, continues. There is so much emotion packed into the body and it feels like it’s ready to burst… but doesn’t. The body memories have subsided slightly and now I also I find myself extremely low and very tired. Which is making me more mindful of the way the body is reacting and I can see that actually it’s that AJ is close that has the body slowing down a little.
She’s hiding in the shadows. We were talking about her with the EMDR lady and I guess AJ’s responding to that. I guess. She seems… curious… about what the EMDR lady was saying… about there being other ways to regulate. About her getting attention in the near future. About her being heard. The EMDR lady said she was sorry that AJ is hurting so much and it seems she heard her. And now she wants a turn to explain. To hear. To listen.
This is a good thing. A very good thing.
AJ is hard to engage and now she is interested and wants time in a session. The downside is how chronically depressed she is and her being close to the surface leaks through to the front. I feel slow and sluggish. Like time isn’t moving and staring off is the best use of time ever. It hurts. She hurts.
Yeah, that didn’t happen
It’s been a lousy day. I’ve tried to do things right. I’ve really really tried. I woke up and went for a walk with a friend despite all the half spitting, head shaking, grunting, whining, nose/mouth scrunching, eye rolling, flapping, air blowing, etc. And I wasn’t able to totally suppress all the symptoms. But I was vulnerable with her and said I was struggling. I kept my head down and watched my feet and walked.
I took the meds fairly close to on time. I ate despite not wanting to. I dyed the hair (an odd, but highly effective coping skill for watching read go down the drain). I took a long shower and tried to soak up the warm water to ground us. I put on a meaningful fuzzy robe and tied it tight to help with self soothing and senses. I filled out mood charts and apps trying to head off the feels. None of it was effective.
Not only do I still feel horrible, but it was unsafe to boot. So screw coping. Screw coping ahead. Screw being mindful. Screw trying to do it right when it all goes down the damn drain in seconds.
1984
My eyes are burning. The little tears are so much more than I can handle.
Today can go to hell. The emotional flashbacks still have not backed down and therapy didn’t help at all. That’s likely because therapy wasn’t therapy so much as more preparing to say goodbye.
One week left.
The plus is that at least Evin got the meds into us finally. We really needed to take them on time on a day like this.
Memories are lining up at the door in my mind. And so it begins.
Well, fuck
Going back and looking at all that Kiddo shared here and other places makes me a little sad. She’s 7. In an adult body. She doesn’t fit in anywhere except with other multiples. None of the kids do. And she wants to.
My head hurts- too much inside. Between Kiddo taking off the glasses and switching headaches in general it’s really throbbing.
Kiddo, having had her chance to be out some, finally gave back up the front when she couldn’t find any food she wanted to eat (and neither could Donut who followed, lol!). We need to go grocery shopping for kid friendly food- noted.
gess wat. gess!
we gun get to fli owr kyt in 10 daas wif the T. he guna go to da parc wif us an fli it. is shapd lyk a aarplaan an we gun tri to mak it fli. she saa it mit not be windee enuf for it to go up in the ski tho. -kiddo